Gossip is how we stay connected. How we build relationships. How we make sure that those in our community have what they need and are treating each other well.
Because I want to live in a world where women are valued, and I see the first step as women valuing themselves. And pleasure is the bridge to that.
I heard a “you should be on substack” from somewhere. I had a choice. I could listen to the shoulds and let myself feel bad about all the shoulds I wasn’t doing.
I am no longer allowing perfectionism to silence me.